Confidence in Sport: Master Your Confidence Like a Video Game through Repetition and Accomplishment

Mike Pawlawski
Football
December 18, 2023

A huge piece of sports performance comes from sport confidence or high self confidence.
A huge piece of sports performance comes from sport confidence or high self confidence.

A Weird Place For an Important Lesson

I was 10 years old, and I can clearly recall standing just behind my brother Eric and looking over his left shoulder. I was watching him set the high score on a game called Asteroids. Back then Asteroids was the number one arcade game in the country. Video arcades were where we went as kids to get our digital addiction fixes before we all started walking around with personal computers in our pockets. Eric was 18 months older than me. It seemed like an eternity and gave him the physical and emotional maturity to pretty much dominate any sport or competition until we reached our teens. I marveled as my brother seemed to pass level after level in the video game with ease. Even though it was a rudimentary game by today's standards, it seemed very confusing to me how he was able to accomplish such success at a high speed without crashing and burning. Eventually, he let me in on the big secret. Every level of that game had a different “pattern”. If you learned it and used it you could dominate the game. With that newfound knowledge, I started setting high scores myself.

That lesson opened up a whole new realm of mastery for me because Asteroids wasn't the only game with a pattern. The other great games of the time like Space Invaders, Pac-Man, and Donkey Kong all had their own patterns as well. What I didn't know then was how developing self confidence in your chosen sport is just like learning the patterns to master the video games of my youth.

Confidence in sports is like a secret weapon that helps young athletes perform better. High confidence can make a big difference in how well someone does in their sport. In individual sports compared to team sports, an athlete's confidence can have a more direct impact on their performance. Building confidence can enhance an athlete's performance by helping them believe in their abilities.

Developing confidence as an athlete is similar to developing any other skill, such as learning how to play video games. When you first start playing a game, you might struggle to understand the patterns and techniques involved. However, as with my brother, if you have a mentor or coach who can teach you the “patterns” or fundamentals that lead to success and you are willing to put in the work to learn those patterns, the game becomes easier, and you progress to the next level. In sports, small accomplishments gradually build upon one another, enhancing your confidence over time.

Knowing What to Learn is Important

Just like in video games, the key to gaining confidence in sports is to learn which skillset you need and put in the work consistently. By continually practicing and refining your skills, you will gain valuable experience that translates directly into increased confidence in your abilities. Remember that everyone starts somewhere, and even the most accomplished athletes and gamers had to begin with the first step.

As you focus on improving your skills and gaining experience, your confidence will grow both on and off the field. It's crucial to learn from mistakes and use them as opportunities to identify areas for improvement, turning negatives into positives. There is no such thing as failure if you learn from every misstep. By taking advantage of every rep and pairing the physical skills with new learning you can develop the “patterns” that clear the path to success in sports and enhance your athletic performance at every level.

Confidence: A Skill Like Any Other

Just like learning any other skill, developing confidence as an athlete takes practice and repetition. Think about how you gradually get better at playing video games when you learn the patterns, techniques, and strategies. As you accomplish small goals, your confidence grows, preparing you for more challenging levels.

Athletes feel confident not just through physical training but also by working on their mental game. Boosting confidence through sport psychology techniques is as vital as physical preparation. The connection between self-confidence and sports performance is evident when athletes apply psychological strategies alongside their physical training routines. Confidence in sport isn't just a catchphrase; it's the foundation upon which athletes build their success.

Taking the First Step and Continual Improvement

Confidence in sport is a harmonious blend of mental resilience nurtured through sport psychology and physical prowess honed through rigorous training.
Confidence in sport is a harmonious blend of mental resilience nurtured through sport psychology and physical prowess honed through rigorous training.

As a beginner, it's crucial to take the first step and start practicing your chosen sport. Athletes often hesitate to “put themselves out there” for fear of criticism or failure. But the first step is the essential step in order to break through the initial barrier and gradually build your skills and confidence. The key is to focus down and develop small skills first. Start working on specific techniques, such as dribbling in basketball or the first step in your drop as a Quarterback. Dedicate time to perfecting these fundamental skills first because they are the building blocks for the compound movements that will come later. Through constant repetition and correction you’ll set a solid foundation for learning.

The 4 Steps To Learn Anything

1. Focus on the basics

2. Set realistic goals

3. Evaluate your progress regularly

4. Adjust your approach as necessary

Remember, the key is to maintain a consistent routine to strengthen your foundation. Never get bored of the basics!

Learning Patterns and Adapting to Challenges

Learning the "patterns" will boost confidence in sport performance and self confidence.
Learning the "patterns" will boost confidence in sport performance and self confidence.

Confidence goes hand-in-hand with recognizing patterns and adapting to challenges in sports, much like in video games. As you become familiar with different game situations, you'll develop the ability to react confidently to each one. Pay attention to your opponents, hone your skills, and celebrate small victories - all of which contribute to boosting your confidence.

Practicing your sport and accumulating experience will teach you valuable lessons, improve your technique, and help foster the self-assuredness needed for success. Embrace challenges as opportunities to advance your skills and confidence.

In summary, confidence in sports is a skill that requires practice, persistence, and adaptation. By focusing on steady improvement and learning from every experience, you'll continue to advance as an athlete and bolster your self-belief.

Taking The First Step

Just like any skill, it takes practice, dedication, and that crucial first step. Take it, believe in yourself, and let the transformation begin.
Just like any skill, it takes practice, dedication, and that crucial first step. Take it, believe in yourself, and let the transformation begin.

The human body is an amazing adaptation machine. I remember walking into my high school weight room as a scrawny sophomore. I had very little self confidence that day. I was somewhere around 5 foot 10 inches weighing in at about 150 pounds. My high school coach used to joke with me and ask if my parents ever fed me any protein. I was scared with the older players in that gym. I was watching seniorss consistently bench press over 300 pounds and squat nearly 400. I didn't see any way from where I stood that I could be as strong as those guys. But I took the first step and my body adapted. That first step led to a second step and my body adapted again. By the end of my sophomore year my Max bench press was 275 pounds and that was squatting nearly 350. By the end of my senior year I was benching three plates or 315 pounds and my squat was over 450. My body had adapted to go from 150 pounds to 190 pounds and I stood at almost 6 foot 2. I couldn't see it from where I stood when I walked into the door of the Troy High School weight room that day but I would eventually end up earning a college scholarship. But the most important step was the first step. And the second most important was the next step. Similarly, small accomplishments in sports help you build your confidence and adapt to change, making bigger challenges more manageable.

To begin your journey to greater confidence, focus on your ability to improve. Recognize that just like any life skill, confidence takes practice and dedication to develop. Start by setting realistic, achievable goals. Break down these goals into smaller steps, making each step a learning opportunity.

Remember, taking reps at whatever you're trying to accomplish is crucial to improvement. In both sports and video games, the more time you spend honing your skills, the better you become. Make a habit of practicing regularly, regardless of your current confidence level. It's during these practice sessions that you gain experience and achieve the small victories that ultimately boost your self-assurance.

Using Sport Psychology

Self confidence and performance come from self efficacy. Elite athletes know, when you feel confident you enhance performance.
Self confidence and performance come from self efficacy. Elite athletes know, when you feel confident you enhance performance.

The journey toward improved sport confidence involves a dual approach: mental fortitude and physical preparation. It's not merely about believing in oneself but also about the meticulous training and conditioning that instills a sense of readiness. Athletes who integrate sport psychology strategies into their routines often experience a transformative shift, not just in their confidence levels but in their overall sports performance.

One of the reasons that most people fall short is because they let frustration get them down. The amazing fact is that science has proven that that feeling of frustration is your body adapting to change. It's a concept called neuroplasticity. Your brain develops and grows and adapts to new challenges through a neurochemical and hormonal cocktail that creates the feeling of frustration. So know this as an athlete, when you are feeling frustrated your body is learning and adapting. Use that as a sign of encouragement that you're on the road to improvement.

In sports, the line between successful and unsuccessful performance often depends on the confidence young athletes bring onto the field. Positive self-talk is a great tool for nurturing confidence. It can be the bedrock of the sport-performance relationship. An athletes' focus is key, especially in team sports, where the team's overall confidence significantly impacts winning and losing.

Positive reinforcement also plays a significant role in developing your confidence as an athlete. Surround yourself with supportive teammates and coaches who encourage you and recognize your progress. When you achieve a goal or notice improvement in your performance, take a moment to acknowledge your success and appreciate the effort you put in.

To sum it up:

  • Focus on improving your abilities
  • Set small, achievable goals
  • Practice and take reps regularly
  • Surround yourself with positive influences

By taking the first step and continually working on your game, you will see a significant improvement in your confidence. Embrace the process, be patient, and never stop challenging yourself as you move forward in your athletic journey.

Role Of Coaches and Practice

Coaches: Architects of Confidence in sport. From insights to encouragement, their guidance shapes champions.
Coaches: Architects of Confidence in sport. From insights to encouragement, their guidance shapes champions.

Impact Of Coaching

I didn't know it then but that day my brother showed me the pattern asteroids he opened up a whole new level of growth for me. If there was a pattern in asteroids then there needed to be another pattern in all of these games and if I could just find it I could win. And that proved to be the case in another game I loved called Tron, in donkey kong, in pac-man, and in almost every video game ever made. It was also the way learning works in general. In math there are certain theories, or formulas that you need to learn because those patterns are the solution to the majority of math problems. The same goes for sports once you learn the fundamentals of how to throw a football you can apply those fundamentals to throwing the football every time. Those patterns or fundamentals make learning easier and help you get to the next level of the game. That day my brother was my coach that unlocked success in video gaming for me. But as athletes we all need mentors or coaches.

Coaches play a crucial role in building an athlete's confidence. They are in a unique position to provide Essential insights, fundamental corrections, and positive feedback or encouragement. The coach's responsibility is to guide your athletes through the process of learning and honing their skills. A supportive coaching environment fosters growth and boosts an athlete's confidence.

To create such an environment:

  • Set Expectations: Coaches set the stage for learning and challenge. Setting proper expectations create the environment for growth.
  • Recognize achievements: Acknowledge and celebrate even small accomplishments.
  • Provide constructive feedback: Offer advice on areas to improve and provide specific examples.
  • Be approachable: Encourage open communication to ensure the athlete feels comfortable discussing their concerns and progress.

The Power Of Practice

Confidence is a practice, not a trait. Each repetition hones skill and belief, paving the way for a stronger, more confident athlete.
Confidence is a practice, not a trait. Each repetition hones skill and belief, paving the way for a stronger, more confident athlete.

As with any skill, practice is essential for building confidence in sports. Consistent practice not only refines your technique, but also strengthens your belief in your abilities. As you become better at your sport, your confidence grows.

Here are some tips for making the most of your practice sessions:

  1. Set goals: Break down larger objectives into smaller, manageable tasks.
  2. Be Process Oriented: Learn how to master the Process For Improvement
  3. Focus on technique: Concentrate on perfecting your skills in each repetition.
  4. Embrace challenges: Stepping outside of your comfort zone will help you grow as an athlete.
  5. Be patient: Improvement takes time; allow yourself to progress at your own pace.

Ultimately, confidence in sports is a skill developed through coaching, practice, and persistence. As an athlete or coach, giving yourself the grace to deal with frustration and grow is the quickest way through to success and confidence.

Psychology Behind Sports Confidence

Your identity as an athlete comes from the stories that you tell yourself. That's why it's so important to understand that frustration is your body's way of adapting. If, when you get frustrated you tell yourself, “I suck” or “I can't do this” then that will become your identity and your reality. You will essentially talk yourself out of success. However, if you realize the feeling of frustration is how you adapt and you tell yourself “I can't do this, yet.” Or “I haven't mastered this, yet.” You provide yourself the grace and the space to improve your knowledge and skills.

From visualization exercises to goal setting and effective self-talk, sport psychology empowers athletes to improve their mental landscape. You build your identity as an athlete through positive self statements to develop the self-confidence needed to thrive in competitive environments. Self confidence and performance are both enhanced through successful physical preparation. Exercise psychology acts as a bridge between mind and body to help you achieve peak performance.

The Dopamine Trigger

Small wins, big boosts! Celebrate success in sports; each victory releases a surge of motivation and confidence. It's the dopamine of dedication.
Small wins, big boosts! Celebrate success in sports; each victory releases a surge of motivation and confidence. It's the dopamine of dedication.

At the same time, once you accomplish a small step, you need to take advantage of the dopamine reward system by celebrating your victories. The dopamine reward system is how the brain imprints success and motivates you to take similar actions toward success in the future. By practicing your skills and techniques you will improve. That improvement will lead to a dopamine release. Celebrating those successes will reinforce the fact that you are learning and trigger a dopamine release which will motivate you to continue training in order to receive more dopamine. The same concept applies to sports confidence; small accomplishments build your belief in your abilities and, in turn, improve your performance.

The core of sports confidence lies in self-efficacy, which refers to your belief in your ability to perform specific tasks. Research in sport psychology highlights the importance of self-efficacy in an athlete's performance. Techniques such as positive self-talk and visualization can help you build a stronger mindset, cultivate self-belief, and manage anxiety, improving your overall confidence.

When working on your confidence, pay attention to your thoughts and self-talk. By identifying negative thoughts and replacing them with positive affirmations, you can enhance your focus, reduce anxiety, and strengthen your belief in your abilities. For instance, instead of thinking “this is impossible.” You should try to come up with a solution. Perhaps your thought would be “what skill set or technique do I need to learn to make this possible?” Or what don't I know that would help me do this better?” Do you need to get stronger? Do you need to get faster? Is there a technique you need to understand to improve your play? These are all skills that you can develop. By taking the proper mindset and asking better questions of yourself you provide the space to grow and improve, and with improvement comes confidence.

A Little Rain Must Fall

Every athlete encounters low self confidence and self doubt at some time. Positive self-statements and motivational self talk are a way to improve athletic performance in those moments.
Every athlete encounters low self confidence and self doubt at some time. Positive self-statements and motivational self talk are a way to improve athletic performance in those moments.

In spite of how it may seem, nobody has an easy path to greatness. Setbacks are a natural part of any learning process. For example, you might lose a match or struggle with a new technique. Instead of viewing these setbacks as failures, use them as opportunities to learn and grow. This approach will improve your concentration and resilience in the face of challenges, allowing you to maintain your confidence even during difficult times.

Building sports confidence is an ongoing process that requires consistent practice, positive thoughts, and a strong mindset. Like any other skill, it will grow and strengthen over time as you experience small achievements and overcome setbacks. Stay persistent in your efforts, keep stacking small victories, and you will see significant improvements in your self-belief and performance.

Influence Of External Factors

Family support: The cornerstone of confidence. Celebrating every stride, no matter how small, creates a foundation for focus and motivation.
Family support: The cornerstone of confidence. Celebrating every stride, no matter how small, creates a foundation for focus and motivation.

Social Support And Parents

An athlete’s Confidence can be heavily influenced by the social support they receive from family, friends, and coaches. Parents play an essential role in building self-confidence, by encouraging an athlete’s efforts and celebrating achievements, no matter how small. By surrounding yourself with people who believe in you, it becomes easier to stay focused and motivated.

Competitive Pressure

Rise above the pressure: In sports, external factors can test your confidence. Mastering mental resilience is the key to conquering challenges and excelling in high-stakes moments.
Rise above the pressure: In sports, external factors can test your confidence. Mastering mental resilience is the key to conquering challenges and excelling in high-stakes moments.

In the world of sports, you may often face external factors. Competitive pressure and fear of failure can hamper your self-confidence if you let it. Dealing with high-pressure situations, like championship games or crucial matches, requires mental resilience. Learning to cope with these external stressors can improve your overall confidence and performance.

To help alleviate pressure, try setting personal goals, breaking them down into smaller, achievable tasks, and focusing on what's within your control. Remember that even the best athletes have off days and setbacks, but what makes them successful is how they bounce back and learn from mistakes. Fear of failure is natural, but it should never hold you back from pursuing your passion or pushing your limits. Facing your fears head-on, seeking advice from coaches, and learning from past experiences are essential steps to building confidence and becoming a better athlete.

Finally

By understanding the influence of external factors and continually working on your self-confidence, incorporating social support, and learning to manage competitive pressure, you'll be well-prepared to overcome challenges and reach your full potential in sports.